Men giving to Women

Teaching sensual massage to enhance skills and confidence in giving a woman amazing foreplay and other sexual technique

Intimate Tutorials offers private classes or group workshops in addition to our online tutorials. Taught by Intimate Tutorials creator sex mentor, and master masseur, Colin Richards, these workshops enable you to learn from an expert in sexual performance. Colin has been teaching men, women and couples how to improve their confidence in sexual performance and lovemaking for more than 12 years.

Why men of all generations should take a class

Age – 21 to 35

Most young men of this age believe their natural sex drive will be enough to satisfy their partners’ sexual desires. However, many women find that this age group lack the knowledge of foreplay, and their approach to sex can be rushed and frantic, often leading to disappointment for the female partner. Incorporating sensual massage into lovemaking slows the process and delays penetration so everyone simultaneously gets to the pinnacle of pleasure.

Age 35 – 50

Often men of this generation have realised that something is lacking in their lovemaking repertoire. The occasional comment by girlfriends or apparent lack of interest in sex by wives and long-term partners is making them consider expanding their knowledge and expertise in giving pleasure. However, besides the odd book and porn, there are few places where constructive advice and practical skills can be learned. Taking a sensual massage class changes all that and can energise long terms relationships and make sex fun and adventurous for both partners.

Age 50 – 70

It’s never too late to learn how to give pleasure. At this age, most men are beginning to experience challenges with maintaining an erection, and if penetration has always been their forte, this can signal the end of their sex lives. Giving an erotic massage as part of lovemaking enables men of this generation to use other skills and techniques to satisfy their partners, so take the emphasis off penetration to become a pleasant option rather than an anxious-expected essential.

70 – onwards

There is no limit to giving erotic pleasure, it is both emotionally and physiologically fulfilling, and regular intimate connection is healthy. So the gentlemen of this generation should invest in sensual massage as much for their health and well-being as for their partners.

To view all the students who completed classes in 2022 – CLICK HERE

Testimonial from Chris – Foundation class October 2022

I’ve just had the best weekend ever with my partner and I felt I had to write again to say thank you.  Whilst I still have much to learn and practice my Friday night massage of her was very well received and your advice regarding flat hands instead of pokey fingers was taken on board and followed. What, what a difference.  Edging her took on a whole new dimension. I told my partner on Saturday morning about my class with you and as I had hoped she was delighted I’d gone to such trouble to please her.  She also seemed keen on a Dinner and Decadence evening so I suspect I’ll be in touch again in the New Year.  Once again, thank you.

Massage My Woman Classes

• The 2 .5-Hour Experiential Practice Session –  Gives a good introduction to sensual massage
• The 5-Hour Foundation Class  – Ideal for expanding your skills and a lover and foreplay skills
• The 10 Hour (2 x 5 hours sessions) Combined Foundation & Intermediate Class – Become a creative exciting lover by learning more skills and becoming confident in giving erotic pleasure.
• The Advanced Professional Training – 20-hours. (4 x 5-hour sessions ) This training combines the 10 hours of Foundation and Intermediate classes with an additional 10 hours sensual massage practice, business set up and guide to marketing. This training is for the man who wants to become a professional sensual masseur for women. (part-time or full-time)

Sharing the training with others

All prices below are quoted for one person taking a class.  If two people are taking the class together, then a further 50% is added.

Enquiry Form

To find out more or to make an enquiry about a class, use this contact form [click here]

Scroll down the page for detailed information on each class type.

The 2.5 or 3-Hour Experiential Session

Learn and enjoy at the same time and give a four hands massage with Colin to a female receiver.

On booking, I find out what you want to explore in the massage practice. Then I will find a volunteer to suit you and arrange a mutually convenient time for the practice. On the day we start by having a brief chat to understand how the volunteer ‘receiver’ likes to enjoy her massage. I then take 15 minutes to teach you some standard massage strokes for the back, legs, buttocks and shoulders. Then once you are feeling confident and at ease and the volunteer is relaxed, we start the four hands massage. We work together with you following my lead. The intention is to create a sensually enjoyable experience for the receiver and yourself rather than learn specific massage techniques. Simply by giving a sensual massage in this way, you will enjoy the pleasure of giving and learn by first-hand practice some essential aspects of a sensual massage. The massage will include full body arousal, breast and nipple massage, clitoral stimulation and various forms of vaginal massage, edging the orgasm, and bringing to multiple orgasms. You can remain clothed or be naked when giving the massage. If there are specific aspects you want to include in the massage, then let me know, and we can incorporate this, for example, light spanking or domination.

Options & Costs

Option 1 – Male giving to his female partner or friend – £300

Option 2 – Male giving to a female volunteer – £350

Option 3 – (3-hour session ) – Male giving to female volunteer then receiving own 30-minute sensual massage. The return massage is given as a 4 hands massage by Colin and the female volunteer – £450

Buy Now Pay Later  – Take 6 weeks to pay for the class of your choice.

Application Form

To apply to take an Experiential Session – Click here

The application does not mean you are making a booking. It just details yourself and your motivation to take this session. Once your registration form is received, I will contact you to discuss your motivations and expectations for the Experiential class.

The 5-Hour Foundation Class

Explore & expand your foreplay skills.

This 5-hour course is a good starting point for men who want to develop their confidence and skill in giving a sensual massage and enhanced foreplay techniques to women. It can be taken independently or as step one to move on to the Intermediate or Advanced courses below.

Starting with a 30-minute discussion about female sexuality, you will join Colin to give a 90-minute sensual massage to a female receiver. During this massage Colin will teach you a full-body sensual massage routine with erotic arousal that will include various movements and techniques to stimulate and arouse the female body. You will follow each step repeating the technique on the volunteer receiver.  This is followed by a short interval when you will receive feedback from the female receiver on your style and technique.

The second practice massage is given to the same female volunteer ( unless you have requested to practice on two separate volunteers)—this time the massage is given with Colin only guiding rather than speaking. You will mirror Colin’s moves as the massage is given. This second practice massage is given more relaxed, lights dimmed, and music on, so that the female receiver can enjoy the massage to the full without distraction and respond naturally. The female receiver gives final feedback at the end of this session.

The Foundation 5-hour class is best taken in one session, but if necessary and by arrangement, it can be split into separate days as 1 x 3-hour and 1 x 2-hour sessions.

In this Foundation Class tuition, you will learn:-

• Introduction to the psychology of female arousal
• To give a full-body sensual massage
• To encourage slow arousal by stimulating her mind via touch of the sensitive but non-erotic areas of the female body
• To give breast and nipple massage
• To give buttock and upper thigh massage
• To master clitoral stimulation
• To explore external vaginal stimulation
• Demonstration of internal vaginal massage
• Demonstration of female ejaculation techniques
• To edge her towards multiple clitoral orgasms
• An invite to join the IMWORKSHOPS Telegram Chat group to meet and get to know other lovers of sensual massage
• Certificate of completion
• Receive a complimentary 30-day membership of www.intimatetutorails.com

Foundation Class Options & Costs

The prices below are for classes taken on weekday evenings 5 pm to 10 pm or Saturdays 10 am to 3 pm

If classes are held on weekdays between 10 am and 5 pm there is a 10% additional charge, and Sundays a 15% additional charge.

• Option 1 – 1 female volunteer in two practice sessions – £525

Practising on the same female volunteer in two massage sessions (this option does not include a massage for yourself)

• Option 2 – One female volunteer in one practice session + your massage – £625

Practising on one female volunteer in the first massage session then having your own massage to follow, given by Colin.

• Option 3 – Two different female volunteers in two practice sessions – £650

Practising on two separate female receivers in two separate massage practice sessions within the 5 hours (therefore, this option does not include a massage for yourself)

Add On

If you have taken the Foundation class and then want to return for another 5 hours to learn more intense and creative ways to stimulate the female body then you can add on the 5-hour Intermediate class content with two female receivers in two practice sessions ( see what’s included below ) – £600

Buy Now Pay Later  – Take 6 weeks to pay for the class of your choice. 

Application Form

To apply to take a Foundation Session – Click here

The application does not mean you are making a booking. It just details yourself and your motivation to take this session. Once your registration form is received, I will contact you back to discuss your motivations and expectations for the Foundation Class

The 10 Hour

Combined Foundation & Intermediate Class 

This class will take you into the top 10% of men in pleasure-giving skills. Enhance your ability to arouse to create prolonged erotic pleasure to maximise her fulfilment. 

This class combines the five-hour Foundation class with 5 hours of Intermediate training.

This Intermediate combined class is for the man who wants to go deeper in understanding female sexual arousal. It includes different erotic techniques.  The class is best divided into 2 x 5-hour training sessions and recommend to be taken at least a few days apart as there is much information to absorb.

In part one, 5-hour Foundation Class tuition, you will learn:-

• Introduction to the psychology of female arousal
• To give a full-body sensual massage
• To encourage slow arousal by stimulating her mind via touch of the sensitive but non-erotic areas of the female body
• To give breast and nipple massage
• To give buttock and upper thigh massage
• To master clitoral stimulation
• To explore external vaginal stimulation
• Demonstration of internal vaginal massage
• Demonstration of female ejaculation techniques
• To edging her towards multiple clitoral orgasms

In part two 5 hour Intermediate class, you will learn

• Body-to-body massage
• Giving internal vaginal stimulation
• Giving slow internal vaginal massage
• Incorporating sex toys
• Giving G-Spot & D-Spot stimulation
• Introducing light domination into the massage
• External anal stimulation
• Edging her to multiple orgasms
• Ejaculation techniques
• Oral techniques and positions (optional)

Additional benefits

• An invite to join the IMWORKSHOPS Telegram chat group to meet and get to know other lovers of sensual massage
• Certificate of completion
• Three months complimentary membership of www.intimatetutorials.com

Class options and costs

The prices below are for classes taken on weekday evenings 5 pm to 10 pm or Saturdays.

If classes are booked for weekdays between 10 am and 5 pm there is a 10% additional cost.

• Option 1 – Two different female volunteers + your massage – £975

Practising on the same female volunteer in the first 5-hour training giving two massage sessions to the same female volunteer. In the second 5 hour of training one different female volunteer was given one practice massage session followed by a massage for yourself given by Colin

• Option 2 – Three different female volunteers – £975

Practising on the same female volunteer in the first 5-hour training giving two massage sessions to the same female volunteer. In the second 5 hours of training, two different female volunteers are given one practice massage each (no massage for yourself)

• Option 3 – Four different female volunteers – £1100

Practising on four separate female receivers in four separate massage practice sessions within the 2 x 5  hours tuition (no massage for yourself)

Classes can be spread over a period but must be completed within 8 weeks of the first class date. If the class is not completed within this period, the time is forfeited and there is no refund. 

5 Hour Intermediate Class ( taken on its own )

If you have taken the 5-hour Foundation class already and now want to progress to the Intermediate, the cost for this as a 5-hour stand-alone class is £600 with two female volunteers to practice on.

Receive a massage for yourself can be added to sessions two or three

You can select an additional 75 minutes sensual massage for yourself given by Colin – £125 ( reduced from £165 to be booked in advance.)

Additional massage given as four hands with another male or female masseur is an additional – £300

Buy Now Pay Later  – Take 6 weeks to pay for the class of your choice. 

Application Form

To apply to take an Intermediate Session – Click here

The application does not mean you are making a booking. It gives me details of yourself and your motivation to take this session. Once your registration form is received, I will contact you back to discuss your motivations and expectations for the Intermediate class.

The 20-Hour Professional Training Class

For the man who wants to give sensual massage as a part-time or full-time profession.

This 20-hour training includes:-

• 5 hours – Foundation class
• 5 hours – Intermediate class
• 10 hours –  Additional professional training & business set-up

Sessions are usually split over 4 x 5-hour sessions; however, alternative time frames are possible

This professional training is designed for those men who want a career as professional sensual therapists given to female clients. Whether it is to work part-time or full-time, the knowledge you will take from this course can immediately launch you into a career that can earn you upwards of £4000 ($6000) a month as a full-time practitioner. You will become skilled in giving a 90-minute full-body sensual massage – with 10-12 hours of guided massage sessions, practising on various (fit, healthy-bodied) female volunteer receivers.

This training includes all that is taught in the Foundation & Intermediate Class plus the following teaching:

In session one,  the 5-hour Foundation class, you will learn:-

• Introduction to the psychology of female arousal
• To give a full-body sensual massage
• Encourage slow arousal by stimulating her mind by touching the sensitive but non-erotic areas of the female body.
• To give breast and nipple massage
• To give buttock and upper thigh massage
• To master clitoral stimulation
• To explore external vaginal stimulation
• Demonstration of internal vaginal massage
• Demonstration of female ejaculation techniques
• To edge her towards multiple clitoral orgasms

In session two, the 5-hour Intermediate class, you will learn

• Body-to-body massage
• Giving internal vaginal stimulation
• Giving slow internal vaginal massage
• Incorporating sex toys
• Giving G-Spot & D-Spot stimulation
• Introducing light domination into the massage
• External anal stimulation
• Edging her to multiple orgasms
• Ejaculation techniques
• Oral techniques and positions (optional)

In session three, part one of the 5-hour professional class, you will have

Further practice 

A further two practice massage sessions on two female receivers ( or male if required ). The sessions include additional techniques to stimulate and arouse the female receivers (or, if required, some teaching of the male-to-male sensual massage routine). The student gives the practice session independently, with Colin guiding and stepping in only when required or showing new techniques.

In session four – Business training and a final practice session or your massage

Business Training

• Setting up your treatment space
• Insurance, confidentiality and security implementation
• Creating your brand and image
• Booking procedures and security
• Researching target markets, client management, business set-up, and productive cost-effective marketing.
• Six months of telephone support providing further ongoing advice and guidance
• Certificate of completion

Additional inclusions in the professional training

• Bullet point guidance sheet provided
• Six month’s free access to the Intimate Tutorials website

• 3 months of telephone support.

Option 3 only

• Optional refresher session was given to a female volunteer at the discounted price of £100
• Option to have your massage filmed for free and promoted to the Intimacy Matters & Sensual Massage Movies network

Dates of class and time limits for taking the classes.

Classes can be spread over a period but must be completed within twelve weeks of the first class date.

If the training is not completed within this period, the remaining time is forfeited, and there is no refund. 

To qualify for the 20-hour professional training, you must have done ay least one of the following.

• Attended either one of Colin’s private or group workshops of any type.
• You have seen Colin as a client for treatment.
• Taken other courses or workshops in sensual massage or tantra
• Worked part-time or full-time for at least a year in the adult sex industry as a masseur or escort, or adult performer.
• You have had at least three months of massage experience professionally or as an enthusiastic amateur.
• You applied for and took a telephone interview with Colin discussing your motivations and ambitions for taking this 20-hour course.
• If none of the above, then agree to have a telephone interview with Colin to establish your qualifications and motivations

Professional Training Option & Costs

The prices below are for classes taken on weekday evenings 5 pm to 10 pm or Saturdays from 10 am to 3 pm.

If classes are booked for weekdays between 10 am and 5 pm, there is a 10% additional cost, and a 15% added charge on Sunday.

Payment

Can be made by bank transfer, credit or debit card or cash

Deposit

Whichever class you book, a 50% deposit is required on booking, with the balance paid on the first day of the class.

Profesional Class Options

Option 1 – Four female volunteers + your massage – £1900

Practising on four different female volunteers in six practice sessions with your own massage to follow after given by Colin 

• Session 1 = one female volunteer x two practice massages
• Session 2 = one female volunteer x two practice massage
• Session 3 = one female volunteer x one practice massage + massage for yourself
• Session 4 = business set up session followed by one female volunteer x one practice massage

Option 2 – Five different female volunteers – £1900

Practising on five different female volunteers in seven practice sessions (this does not include a massage for yourself)

• Session 1 = one female volunteer x two practice massages
• Session 2 = one female volunteer x two practice massage
• Session 3 = two female volunteers x two practice massages
• Session 4 = business set up session followed by one female volunteer x one practice massage

Option 3 – Six different female volunteers – £2000

Practising on six different female volunteers in seven practice sessions (this does not include a massage for yourself)

• Session 1 = one female volunteer x two practice massages
• Session 2 = two female volunteers x two practice massages
• Session 3 = two female volunteers x two practice massage
• Session 4 = business set up session followed by one female volunteer x one practice massage

Add On

Receive a massage for yourself can be added to sessions two or three

You can select an additional 75 minutes sensual massage for yourself given by Colin – £100 (reduced from £210 to be booked in advance.)

Application Form

To apply to take Professional Training  – Click here

The application does not mean you are making a booking. It gives me details of yourself and your motivation to take this session. Once your registration form is received, I will contact you back to discuss your motivations and expectations for the Professional Training

Example Agenda for Option 3 Professional Training

20 hours combined Foundation, Intermediate & Professional Training

4 x 5-hour workshop sessions 

Day one

Day two

Day three

Day four

Cancellation Policy

For classes, you are required to pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due on the first day of the class. You will receive the full deposit back if you cancel up to 3 days before the class. You can re-book another day within three days or lose your deposit. No show, you will pay the full cost of the class.

To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek out a cancellation insurance policy For example.

Payment Plans

I like to make sensual massage accessible for everyone, but I sometimes realise that even though the desire is strong, the cash flow situation may not allow you to take an appointment or workshop with me when you want to.

Buy Now Pay Later

Take six weeks to pay for the class of your choice.

Spread training and payment over six months

To help, I offer instalment plans that enable you to spread your payments over six months. For more details [Click here]

Mixed Gender Classes

 A combination of male & female volunteers ( options a,b, and c include a receiving massage for the student given by Colin)

a) 5-hour Foundation – Two practice sessions – Practising on one male and one female volunteer – £575

b) 10-hour Intermediate – Three practice sessions-  Practising on two female and one male volunteer or visa versa – £875

c) 20-hour Professional  –  Four practice sessions – Practising on a combination of 2 male and 2 female volunteers with a massage for student – £1675

d) 20-hour Professional  – Five practice sessions – Practicing on 2 males and 3 females or visa versa with a  massage for the student – £1775

The Female Massage Practice Receivers

Option 1. Amateur Receivers – FREE

Option 2. Professional Receivers – Up to £200 additional cost

Testimonial from Jools March 2019

Now practising as Sensual Bodyworks in Leicester

I’ve recently taken part in a private 20 hour sensual massage course with Colin of Intimacy Matters. Colin clearly has a lot of knowledge and experience in the field of sensual massage as well as other psychosensual treatments so was an obvious choice to train with. He is very professional but also operates in a relaxed manner putting everyone at ease making for enjoyable training sessions and easy learning. The training sessions took place at Colin’s Battersea treatment room, which is worth a visit for the views alone. The 20 hours was taken as 4 x 5 hours sessions over a 3 week period which worked well, allowing me to digest what I had learned each time and practice elsewhere before coming back for the next session. There was a combination of demonstration massage, 4-hand massages with Colin, 2-hand massage with Colin giving advice and guiding and finally 2-hand massage with Colin providing feedback. I believe the training was invaluable and would recommend it to anyone thinking of offering sensual massage either to their partner or professionally. I’d like to thank Colin and all the volunteers who so generously gave their time”

Testimonial from Daniel June 2015

I attended a half-day course with Colin. From the outset, he put me at ease and was extremely generous with his knowledge throughout the session.  I particularly liked the way in which he encouraged me to develop my skills using different stokes, and how I could integrate new skills into my existing routine.  I would really recommend this workshop for masseurs wanting to take their skills to the next level and to learn some really exciting sensual techniques.