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The Female to Male Sensual Massage Program

Level 3 Tutorial – 180 Minutes

Created by Intimate Tutorial’s own Master Masseur and Sex Mentor – Colin Richards, this is a 3 hour video tutorial divided into 7 chapters. In it, Colin teaches the female to male sensual massage routine with the assistance of Zara as his student and 2 male volunteers. Colin takes you on a step by step journey from learning a basic therapeutic massage routine and then developing it into a sensual and erotic adventure for the receiver. By taking this tutorial you will learn a complete sensual massage routine and gain a better understanding of the female arousal process. You will learn how to create a sensual massage that combines the physiological, psychological and emotional dynamics that makes it one of the most intensely sensual massage experiences a man can receive from a woman.

The Male to Male Sensual Massage Program

Level 3 Tutorial – 180 Minutes

Created by Intimate Tutorial’s own Master Masseur and Sex Mentor – Colin Richards, this is a 3 hour video tutorial divided into 8 chapters. In it, Colin teaches the male to male sensual massage routine with the assistance of Gio as his student and 3 other male volunteers. Colin takes you on a step by step journey from learning a basic therapeutic massage routine and then developing it into a sensual and erotic adventure for the receiver.  By taking this tutorial you will learn a complete sensual massage routine and gain a better understanding of the male arousal process. You will learn how to create a sensual massage that combines the physiological, psychological and emotional dynamics that makes it one of the most intensely sensual massage experiences a man can receive from another man.

The Male to Female Sensual Massage Program

Level 3 Tutorial – 180 Minutes

With the assistance of two beautiful female volunteers Holly and Anna … watch Colin teach the full body sensual massage program that he regularly gives to his female clients. By taking this tutorial, you will learn a complete sensual massage program and gain a better understanding of the female arousal process. You will learn how to create a sensual massage that combines the physiological, psychological and emotional dynamics that makes it one of the most intense sensual massage experiences a woman can receive from a man.

Created by Intimate Tutorial’s own Master Masseur and Sex Mentor – Colin Richards, this is a 3-hour tutorial divided into 8 chapters. In it, Colin teaches the ‘Male to Female Sensual Massage Program’.

Fly on the Wall Workshop

Level 2 Tutorial – 27 Minutes

Fly on the Wall Workshop is a ‘Level 2’ 27 minute tutorial in 2 parts. As the title suggests, this tutorial gives a bystander view of a real life workshop being given by Colin when teaching a male student how to give another man a full body sensual massage.

This tutorial is good for:

  • People thinking of purchasing the 3 hour male to male tutorial
  • Men who like to massage men
  • Women who like to see how men interact sensually
  • Professional male masseurs who want to give sensual massage to male clients

This tutorial is a great taster tutorial for those that are not sure if they want to commit to the full 3-hour tutorial. In this video, Colin can be watched as he demonstrates the first 2 phases on sensual massage routine given to a man, to his student. The camera remains mostly fixed so not many close-up shots, but it does give a good overview of the massage techniques Colin teaches.  Additionally, When the student starts to practice himself, you get an opportunity to understand that the giving of a sensual massage is not just a ‘rub & tug’ experience, but should be done with care and a genuine intention.

Managing Premature Ejaculation with Sensual Massage

Level 1 Tutorial – 22 Minutes

This 20-minute ‘Level 1’ video tutorial presents Sex Mentor Colin Richards helping one of his clients who has come to him with issues of Premature Ejaculation. In this video, you will hear how Colin explores the background to his clients challenges and investigates in what situations he experiences it.

This Tutorial is good for:

  • Men who want to last longer
  • Women who want their man to last longer
  • Men who find that they get anxious when with another person
  • Professional masseurs who want to incorporate Psycho-Sensual Massage within their services

As Colin explains, “orgasming before we want to” is quite common and should be regarded as an anxiety issue and not a sexual performance issue. In most cases there will not be a physiological reason for this happening but most likely it is about the emotional state of the individual.

After talking through his problem, Colin then proceeds by giving his client a Psycho-sensual massage. The Psycho-Sensual Massage incorporates both sexual performance mentoring combined with a full body sensual massage. By bringing together his knowledge as a trained sex & relationship therapist with his skills as a masseur, Colin is able to provide a greater depth of support, both psychological and physiological. By allowing his client to at first share his problem and the to give him the massage with the client knowing that he is not under pressure to perform results in the client being able to relax and feel much less anxious and thus able to control his ejaculation much better.

The Miss Bi Rabbit Adult Toy Tutorial

Adult Toy Tutorial – 15 Minutes

The Miss Bi Rabbit

The Fun Factory Miss Bi Rabbit is a cleverly designed rabbit vibrator made from skin safe silicone which combines intense clitoral stimulation with powerful vibrations directly to your G-spot. From a pleasure perspective, when fully inserted, the curved tip of the flexible shaft is perfectly designed to massage the G-spot due to its shape, while the flexible and wide arm vibrates against your clitoris and labia, its unique shape covering the whole vulval area unlike the “ears” on other rabbit vibrators.

Being waterproof Miss Bi can help you enjoy more than a relaxing soak in the bath or make your morning shower more pleasurable- a great way to start your day too! Being rechargeable you won’t have to worry about replacing batteries or running out of power at that crucial moment! Just make sure you charge it regularly. From a health and well being perspective using the Fun Factory Miss BI can help you to discover exactly where your G-spot is and enjoy different sexual sensations not possible through masturbation and penetrative sex alone. Being 100% skin safe Miss Bi also protects your sexual health too.

This Tutorial is good for:

  • Women who want to lean more about simultaneous G Spot and Clitoral stimulation
  • Men and women who want to understand the health and well being benefits of regular orgasm
  • Men who want to learn how women use vibrators
  • Women who have dificulty reaching orgasm through penetration
  • Professional and amateur masseurs who want to incorporate sex toys in their massage routine

This tutorial consists of:

  • Introduction to sex toys by Samantha Evans of Jo Divine
  • Explicit Demonstration of the sex toy with Kyara
  • Kiera & Samantha Evans give an appraisal of the sex toy demonstrated

The We-Vibe Nova Adult Toy Tutorial

Adult Toy Tutorial – 15 Minutes

The We-Vibe Nova

With deep, rumbling vibrations but whisper-quiet emanating from its dual motors, “We-Vibe Nova” delivers pure pleasure sensations to both your G-Spot and clitoris. What sets Nova apart from most rabbit vibes is its unique, flexible clitoral arm that maintains contact with your clitoris as you move the shaft in and out of your body. Many rabbit vibrators have ears or fingers that are inflexible which poke into your clitoris or do not sit comfortably against it. From a pleasure perspective, this constant contact allows you can reap the benefits of intense internal and clitoral play for dynamite dual stimulation, often not possible during sexual intercourse. The shaft of the Nova is ergonomically designed to fit the contours of the female form and is perfectly shaped to caress your G -spot allowing the vibrations to be delivered to exactly where they need to go for ultimate pleasure. Nova is waterproof so ideal for when you want to enjoy much more than just a relaxing soak in the bath. The Nova does NOT require you to use or own a smartphone, but as an optional extra you can download the We-Connect app to a Smartphone and allow your partner to take control if you are brave enough! Being rechargeable you won’t have to worry about running out of power at that crucial moment! 90 minutes of charging gives you 2 hours of play From a sexual health view, Nova is 100% skin safe and is ideal for allowing you to explore your clitoris and G-spot, helping you to recognise what feels pleasurable, discover new sexual sensations and new ways to orgasm by enjoying blended orgasms through both clitoral and G-spot stimulation.

This Tutorial is good for:

  • Women who want to explore clitorally and G-spot stimulation
  • Men and women who want to understand the health and well-being benefits of regular orgasm
  • Men who want to extend their sexual foreplay skill
  • Women who have difficulty reaching internal vaginal orgasm
  • Professional and amateur masseurs who want to incorporate clitoral and G-spot stimulation sex toys into their massage routine

This Tutorial consists of:

  • Introduction to sex toys by Samantha Evans of Jo Divine
  • Explicit Demonstration of the We Vibe Nova with Holly Kiss
  • Holly Kiss & Samantha Evans give an appraisal of the We Vibe Nova

The Pulse 3 Solo Adult Toy Tutorial

Adult Toy Tutorial – 15 Minutes

The Pulse 3 Solo

Completely unique in design with unique oscillating PulsePlates and five pre-set vibration modes, the Pulse 3 Solo is the ultimate guybrator, bringing unprecedented satisfaction and intense sensations to solo play for men.Made for skin safe silicone, the wings hold the penis firmly in place, while the oscillating plates massage the frenulum for sensations. With easy to use + and – controls, the Solo is rechargeable, making it really easy to use and unlikely to run out of power at that crucial moment. Being waterproof, a relaxing soak in the tub can become more pleasurable or start the day in a great mood when used in the shower. Now in version 3, this guybrator features magnetic charging, and a Turbo Boost mode to take you to the maximum power just when you need it. It also now features an anti-stall mechanism that boosts the power when you apply pressure to the Pulse Plate, ensuring the pleasure never stops. Being 100% waterproof Solo is easy to clean. From a pleasure perspective, the Solo can be used with or without lubricant, creating two completely different sensations for you to discover. When used with lubrication, the Pulse becomes the world’s most innovative male masturbator, while without, it can be used statically for a totally unique, prolonged orgasm. The unique ergonomic design makes it comfortable to hold in one hand. Unlike other male sex toys, The Pulse 3 Solo can be used whether the penis is erect or flaccid, meaning those with Erectile Dysfunction can still enjoy the scintillating sensations so helping many men enjoy sexual sensation even when a full erection is not possible. It also stimulates the nerves of the penis to produce an erection from its flaccid state too.

This Tutorial is good for:

  • Men who want to explore enhanced orgasm
  • Women who want to masturbate their male partners with ease
  • Professional and amateur masseurs who want to incorporate alternative masturbatory techniques into their massage

This tutorial consists of:

  • Introduction to sex toys by Samantha Evans of Jo Divine
  • Explicit Demonstration of the Pulse 3 with Mack
  • Mack & Samantha Evans give an appraisal of the Pulse 3
  • Samantha talks to Holly Kiss about the couple’s use of the Pulse 3

The Innovative Satisfyer Adult Toy Tutorial

Adult Toy Tutorial – 15 Minutes

The Innovative Satisfyer Pro 2

The Innovative Satisfyer Pro 2 is completely unique in the world of sex toys. Its undulating sensations allow you to succumb to a whole new world of orgasmic bliss! A true innovation in clitoral stimulation, The Satisfyer Pro 2 offers touch-free massage using sound wave technology, the removable silicone head engulfs the clitoris and creates gentle pressure waves that gently suck and tease the clitoris with a choice of eleven amazing intensities. The unique sexual sensation created by this sex toy offers sexual stimulation never felt before and simply not possible through sexual intercourse, foreplay and from a vibrating sex toy. The pleasurable sensations you feel begin as a very slow build up, almost as if nothing is happening, then begin to travel through your clitoris and vagina causing to ti twitch. These waves of pleasure continue through to your upper thighs causing them to shake too, culminating in a completely unique orgasm. Bath time can become much more fun as this sex toy is waterproof and being rechargeable means you’ll never run out of power just when you need it. From a health and well-being point of view, the Satisfyer has been found to help women who really struggle to orgasm enjoy intense orgasms. Using a vibrator for long periods if you struggle to reach orgasm can leave you desensitized but this does not happen with this sex toy due to the unique pressure wave technology. It has a unique design that is both ergonomic and incredibly hygienic as water, lubricant or any other liquid cannot get into the interior of the product. With a smooth ABS plastic handle, the Satisfyer Pro 2 is 100% body safe and has a supple silicone nozzle that can also be detached for easy cleaning.

This Tutorial is good for:

  • Women who want to explore clitoral suction pleasure
  • Men and women who want to understand the health and well-being benefits of regular orgasm
  • Men who want to extend their sexual foreplay skill
  • Women who have difficulty reaching clitoral orgasm
  • Professional and amateur masseurs who want to incorporate clitoral stimulation sex toys into their massage routine

This Tutorial consists of:

  • Introduction to sex toys by Samantha Evans of Jo Divine
  • Explicit Demonstration of ‘The Innovative Satisfyer Pro 2’ with Holly Kiss
  • Holly Kiss & Samantha Evans give an appraisal of ‘The Innovative Satisfyer Pro 2’

Mistress Ivy – Therapeutic BDSM & Fantasy Facilitator

3 Episodes – Interview, Devices & Demonstration – 1 Hour

Mistress Ivy – Therapeutic BDSM & Fantasy Facilitator

Mistress Ivy has worked in the fields of sexuality, kink and BDSM for 13 years. She specialises in helping people connect with their fantasies, fetishes and kinks so as to get past any feelings of guilt or shame so as to explore deeper aspects of themselves. Mistress Ivy provides BDSM-based sessions in various London locations and has a huge range of equipment and considerable experience. She is also a trained Hypnotherapist and Reiki Master and has qualifications in drama therapy and counselling skills. Clients use her therapeutic style sessions to help with grief, addiction and even depression.

Mainstream culture often represents BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and sadomasochism) as reckless, dangerous and unhealthy. Humans have always had a penchant for adventurous sex. A 2005 Durex Global Sex Survey found 36% of adults admitted to using some form of bondage during lovemaking. Even back in 1956, a Kinsey Institute Study revealed 50% of men and 55% of women enjoyed erotic biting. We may not be having kinky sex much more than we always have, but we are certainly talking about it more. Recent studies devoted to understanding BDSM and its effects on the body have shown surprising results. Not only are researchers failing to find evidence of harm BDSM causes, but they are also discovering it actually has quite a few health benefits.

Female Sensual And Erotic Stimulation

6 Episodes – Interview, Arousal to Ejaculation – 1 Hour

Female Sensual and Erotic Stimulation

Featuring Sex & Relationship Engineer Colin Richards of Intimacy Matters, Jasmin as the female receiver and an appearance by sensual masseur Mack. In this series of six tutorials, Colin demonstrates his skills as a sensual masseur for women. Colin has given over 600 sensual massages to female clients. He explains that many of these female clients come to him, saying they are sexually frustrated. That they believe their bodies are capable of more but that the men they have been with have limited knowledge and experience in giving adequate foreplay.

In the first episode first Colin interviews Jasmin and they discuss the frustrations that women have with men who do not take time to invest in foreplay before penetration. In episode 2 Jasmin lays on the massage bed, and Colin shows some techniques he uses which are designed to relax Jasmin but at the same time gently arouse the female body in readiness for the more erotic stimulation. Episode three and four demonstrates various positions for giving clitoral touch and vaginal and G spot massage. Episode five has Mack, an associate masseur, put these techniques all together to take Jasmin to orgasm. In the final sixth episode, Colin shows how he helps women experience ejaculation.

The Importance of Sensual Massage and Toys for Women

2 parts – Interview, Massage and Erotic Stimulation – 1 Hour

Sensual Massage for Women

In Part 1, Colin demonstrates an example of the Absolute Massage. This massage can be included within Psychosensual treatments but also as a massage only experience without counselling. Part 2 sees Colin demonstrating the Innovative Satisfyer on his volunteer receiver Jasmin, showing how he recommends using this specific toy and the reaction from Jasmin.

MysteryVibe

5 parts – Interview and Toy Demonstrations – 1 Hour

Tech Meets Tantalising Tech

In this series of five tutorials, Emma, Kyara, Daniel & Jerry demonstrate these high tech sex toys created by London based company MysteryVibe. Introduced by Director and designer of the Mysteryvibe range Soumyadip Rakshit, who explains the story behind the idea of creating a sex toy company and the thinking behind the design of the sex toys themselves. MysteryVibe is a British-American firm that focuses on sexual health products. It beat Apple Watch at the 2018 Design Week Awards. MysteryVibe was founded by a group of researchers, engineers and designers from Nokia, Philips, IBM and Deloitte. Inspired by trends in smartphones like Nokia Morph, the founders came up with the idea of creating ‘platform’ vibrators that would adapt to any body shape and vibrate to any pattern.

Conversations with a Sexpert

3 parts – Interviews with Leah – 1 Hour

Leah Spasova

Colin chats to Leah Spasova from LIFESEXPERTS, she’s a social psychologist and educator, specialising in sex and relationships. Leah works with adults, empowering them to lead the lives they desire through guided personal growth. She shares priceless know-how about the connections between the environment, mind and body. With this she helps people explore, expand and enrich their sexuality and improve and future proof their relationships.

Sexual Alchemy, Taoism and Tantra

5 parts – Interviews, talks and Demos

Methods for sexual connection with Jade Lotus

Taoism is an ancient energy science that allows us to do exactly that. By learning to master our energies, we can learn to get the most out of ourselves, to know and truly fall in love with ourselves, and to experience the destiny that is meant for us.

The main forms of energy that we experience are emotions. Emotions can be a source of inspiration or they can be a drain on your energy. Sexual energy is another form of energy, the most powerful and versatile energy that we have, and it can either be uplifting or a cause of frustration, depending on your relationship with it. Understanding how these energies work is the key to learning to gain self- mastery.

Psychology of Attraction

Talk by Colin Richards

With 15 years of experience listening and working with clients relationship and sexual frustrations then combining this with his training in Imago relationship psychology, coaching, NLP and his work as a hands-on sex practitioner Colin presents this casual, fun talk on his observations and theories. He will explain how our early life influences can affect both our attractions to others and our subsequent sexual preferences, behaviors, desires, and fears. Join in on your own or if you are isolating together with a partner and listen or take part in some of the exercises.

Do you ask yourself: Why do I always meet the same type of guy/girl; end relationships the same way; feel afraid of commitment; feel in need of security; get great sex but lousy life partners; meet nice guys/girls but lousy lovers; fall for abusive partners; attract attention seekers; always go for older guys/girls; want a younger partner; feel anxious when having sex; feel guilty when being sexual; find it difficult to express myself sexually; can’t achieve sexual fulfilment; experience anxiety when having sex.

These are just some of the relationship and sexual performance challenges that Colin will be talking about.

The Art of the Bedchamber

Methods for sexual connection with Jade Lotus

Established in 2020 by sex and energy coach and a bodyworker Jade, Art of the Bedchamber is a web site for the connoisseur of erotic devotion and encourages users to dive into the depths of sensual exploration. Join Jade on a pilgrimage of revelation into the depths of your body and soul. With The Art of the Bedchamber you can explore your carnal experience in all its dimensions. Moving beyond mere titillation into a realm of extended bliss, at Art of the Bedchamber you can discover pleasure techniques to expand your mind, rejuvenate your body and manifest your creativity. This is the domain of the advanced aficionado of sensuality and self-development; packed full of tips and hacks to transform you into a super lover.

A chat between A Great British Sexpert and A Sex Engineer

With Rebecca Dakin and Colin Richards

Rebecca Dakin is the Great British Sexpert and in this Instagram interview (hence the size of movie) she talks with fellow sexpert and self defined Sex Engineer, Colin Richards of Intimacy Matters.

Rebecca has a fascinating story behind her GBS title since she comes from a place of genuine sexual experience since she once worked as a successful escort. Now qualified as a Master practitioner in Neuro Linguistic programming and professionally qualified in Hypnosis and Time Line Therapy she works with people of all sexualities, ages and types helping them to embrace intimacy, boost body confidence and explore or rediscover pleasure in sex and dating!

In this 60 minute conversation Colin and Rebecca discuss various aspects of their work. How they came to do what they do, their philosophy on open sexuality and talk of some of the situations they have helped people with.

100 Steps to La La Land

Guided by Dr Nancy Moonstarr with Colin Richards

Every now and again Intimate Tutorials Founder Colin Richards is requested by Psychologists and other Sexperts to talk on his theories and experience on the subject of sexuality. In this hour long video Nancy Moonstarr, Interpersonal / relational specialist and Psychologist based in Washington, DC in the USA, interviews Colin for her series of interviews titled ‘ A Man Guide to Sexual Intimacy’. In the interview that Colin calls ‘100 Steps to La La Land’ he discusses with Nancy the benefits and techniques he recommends men use when giving an erotic massage to a woman.

Male to Male Sensual Intimacy & Erotic Stimulation

Narrated by Colin Richards with Jamie & Rab

This is 67 minute tutorial series is made up of 8 chapters. Created by Sex & Relationship Engineer & Sensual Masseur Colin Richards at Intimacy Matters, London UK

Colin takes the viewer through demonstrations of various erotic arousal techniques that can be incorporated with a sensual massage or enhanced foreplay. The demonstrations are given by Rab & Jamie, both gay professional sensual masseurs themselves.

Chapter 1 begins with an introduction by Colin about the psychology and physiology of male arousal and intimacy.
This is followed by 6 chapters demonstrating specific aspects of erotic stimulation. The final chapter brings this all together in a 17 minute feature of an erotic massage given to Jamie by Rab.

PREVIEW – Level 3 Sensual Massage Programs – Compilation

This preview includes clips from our level 3 tutorials, showing how to give a sensual massage to a man whilst a male student watches and practices with the tutor, to a woman and to a man by a woman.


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